Chances are you already know you’re pregnant. Getting pregnant might have been emotionally and physically hard, and taken a long or unexpectedly short time. Everyone reacts differently.
The first sign of pregnancy is usually missing a period, about 2 weeks after you’ve conceived. This isn’t always reliable and if your periods aren’t regular you might not notice you’ve missed one.
Some women have a bit of bleeding as the egg embeds. Many women also experience tender breasts. This may be around the time they would have expected a period and can be confusing.
A home pregnancy test is a reliable way of checking to see if you’re pregnant. You can do a test on the first day your period’s due.
The test measures a hormone called human chorionic gonadotrophin (hCG) in your urine. For the result to be positive, your body must be making enough for the test to pick it up, usually about 2 weeks after you conceive.
You can get a free pregnancy test, support and advice at a sexual health clinic.
If you’ve had assisted conception (such as IVF), you need to wait about 2 weeks after the transfer of an embryo before doing a pregnancy test.
When you find out you’re pregnant, you’ll have an ultrasound scan. From then on, you’ll have the same care as other pregnant women.
The start of your pregnancy’s dated from the first day of your last actual period, although you probably conceived about 2 weeks after that. That means by the time you miss a period you could technically be 4 weeks pregnant if you have a 28-day cycle. But every woman’s different.
Pregnancy usually lasts between 38 and 42 weeks. Your due date will be estimated when you attend your first ultrasound scan appointment. Most babies are born in the 2 weeks before or after this date.
As soon as you know you’re pregnant:
Seeing a midwife as early in your pregnancy as possible gives you and your baby the best start. You’ll be able to discuss how your lifestyle might impact on your baby and the choices you can make during pregnancy.
You might be feeling:
Maybe your pregnancy is a surprise and it’s taking a while to get used to the idea. Your partner can feel the same.
Whatever your situation, it’s important to talk about how you’re feeling and make sure you’ve got support.
Your midwife’s there for you, dads and partners too.
If you’ve got any worries or questions, the people involved in your care are happy to listen and help give you the support you need.
Sometimes young people worry about sharing their pregnancy with a professional.
Young people aged 13 and over have the same rights to medical confidentiality (privacy) as an adult and the same rights and responsibilities as all parents.
It’s important you’re able to:
Your midwife can help you find out more about the support available from the NHS and other services.
Your midwife or doctor won’t tell anyone else about your pregnancy without your agreement if they believe:
Most first-time young mums are eligible for support through the Family Nurse Partnership (FNP).
Specially trained FNP nurses:
The Scottish Government has more information about Family Nurse Partnership
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3 November 2023